Walking The Fine Line Between Frugality And Scarcity

When it comes to saving money, there are many ways to economize.  Taking your lunch to work is a great way to avoid overspending.  Then, there’s finding better alternatives.  A generic store brand is worth a try and may be just as good as a name-brand item.  Ultimately, there’s doing without.  However, the habit of doing without may offer diminishing or detrimental returns.

Frugal, froogal, froot-gle.  Nothing good can come of acting out a word that sounds way goofy.  I’m reminded of 18th-century farm living where vocabulary was as limited as the society’s vocational opportunities.  No one’s saying that you can’t adjust some habits downward, but developing an austerity habit may not help your future as much as you think it will.  Frugalizing to the nth degree can be harmful to your well-being.

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Making Financial Change


financial changeToday is as good as any day for making financial changes, but maybe today’s not the day.  Are you truly ready to change?  What’s stopping you?

Instead of thinking about all the reasons why not, take the pressure out of the equation and, well, try.

When I took my Dale Carnegie class, each session involved standing in the front of the room and speaking for approximately three minutes.  The most compelling presentations had a beginning, middle, and end.  What I didn’t know was that this started in the first session.  I thought we would have a warm-up session, not jump right in.  I felt sick to my stomach and barely managed to get through.  Continue reading “Making Financial Change”

Improve Your Financial Knowledge

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When it comes to your financial knowledge, stop pretending that you don’t know what you’re doing.  There are more resources than ever.  If you’re a book lover, read a few on personal finance.  If you’re a net surfer, start Googling up on financial terms.


Answer the following questions and take a few minutes to research anything that you don’t know.  Don’t be afraid, we all have an area that we need to focus on.  These items are off the beaten path, and from what I’ve seen, points that cause confusion.  Some are Yes/No or True/False, while others are thought questions.


I’m all about sharing knowledge.  I learn something new every day and never stop reading.



True or False:  I have a progressive career plan that will increase my earnings within the next five years.


The last time I improved my work skills was ______________.


Related Post: Money Learning Checklist 1         Earning/Saving

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Financial Independence Hokey-Pokey


financial freedomI didn’t focus on being financially independent until about three years ago.  I had an idea what my net worth was, but wasn’t fully clear on the exact number.   The lack of a plan made it a nebulous target.


In my 20s at the start of my career, retirement seemed so far away.  I relied heavily on my accounting career to give me financial security.  After all, I chose the career knowing that I’d always have a job.  Consequently, every ounce of my energy went into working.  There were summers that I never saw the light of day. I never knew when I was getting home and I made many sacrifices.  Believe it or not, it was exciting and I enjoyed it.  I latched onto an upward trajectory of promotions and raises.  When I had full autonomy over my position, I liked being relied upon and the responsibilities that went with it.

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5 Ways Your Life Is Impacted By An Interest Rate Increase

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Interest rates do not make for the most exciting chat topic. You won’t find it in the conversation starter game that you unwrapped for Christmas.  It’s probably easier to clear a room by yelling ‘Interest Rates!’ than FIRE!  Watch your friends and family run from you as you broach the topic of how the Federal Open Market Committee voted to keep the Federal Funds Target Rate at 1.00% – 1.25%.  Fed Prime Rate Info

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How Money Plays a Role in Our Lives

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I see everything through a money lens.  I realize most people don’t.  The notion of excluding money from everyday thinking is unrealistic to me.  Unless we live off the grid and grow our own food, then money may be considered trivial.  In the real world, money is the medium through which we manage our standard of living.  Ignoring the role it plays in life is downright naïve.  We exchange money for everything: food, shelter, clothing, electricity, heat, transportation.  Most people shun money topics, or think it’s too boring to talk about.   Reality is, money is the undercurrent of life.  People say they don’t care about money.  They say they want to ski all day or go fishing but they still have to buy the skiing gear and fishing rods.

This post is about how money is intimately interlaced into every area of life and why it’s critical to pay attention to monetary affairs.

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Acknowledge Your Money Behavior

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I’m trying to get to the root of money behaviors. This topic is becoming an annoying bug buzzing around the inside of my head.  Because I spend so much time reading and researching money issues, it’s outside of my faculties to conceive that others don’t make responsible money decisions.  I am constantly reading that more than 50% of pre-retirement workers have little or nothing saved for retirement, and I can’t wrap my mind around it.

Money scripts, just like any other psychological scripts, are clearly the driver, but it’s also about education, or the willingness to learn.  Most adults are struggling to manage their finances, and many concede that they don’t know the basics.  For young adults, there’s no formal education for personal finance, and high school graduates have no idea what to do regarding self-support.  College graduates are burdened with student loans without any idea how they’re going to manage the payments.  Many don’t know how to anticipate real-life expenses and get quickly overwhelmed.  They get blindsided by the multitude of costs, using credit cards to pay for necessities, and enter the danger zone of perpetual debt.

By not knowing the first step, or knowing how to manage all the pieces that make up a comprehensive, effective financial playbook, individuals retreat into ignorance.  That’s never good.  Those that choose not to address their financial issues too often find that eventually their money issues are running them, not the other way around.  Credit that’s not managed properly, spending money that one does not have, letting emotions control money decisions.  These are just a few.  Some money issues are so extreme that they upend a person’s life, leaving the individual with lifelong debt or substantial losses of savings.

Money Scripts

In conjunction with education, the money script of the individual deserves acknowledgement.  If you’ve read any of my previous material, I’m a huge fan of Dr. Brad Klontz, the psychologist responsible for coining the phrase.  All the education in the world will get thrown to the wind if the person possesses a destructive money script.  The money script will collide with the education, and will win in the end.  That’s because the money script is generated from subconscious beliefs.  The person may not even realize they’re displaying certain behaviors.  The human brain works that way, it’s part of survival.  We learn things that work for us and there’s always a payoff for doing what we do.

I intend to be a teacher of the elements that result in a sound financial setting.  Once the elements are part of everyday awareness, it becomes easier to process the combination working together.  Starting out may not be easy, but a strong goal with small rewards along the way will result in an increase in quality of life and overall contentment.  By chipping away at understanding one aspect at a time, it all comes together.  The sum is truly greater than the parts and financial harmony can materialize.

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Intuitive Christmas Spending

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Christmas time is coming and it’s my favorite time of the year.  I love the lights, decorations, and parties.  The celebrations bring people together, maybe for the only time in the year.

It’s also when retailers start salivating, anticipating crazed shoppers grabbing as much as they can hold.  For e-tailers, the online ads and Black Friday emails have already started rolling in.

In light of money management, we should take the consumerism down a few notches this year.  Back when malls were the popular shopping venue, I remember reading an article about post-Christmas overload.  The mom recounted that the mall puked on her living room floor.  Her kids didn’t know what to play with first.  Her regrets led to a personal promise of a different Christmas Future.

I know how much fun it is to watch kids unwrap gifts.  Sometimes, they’re so excited they mean to throw the wrapping paper in the air but instead throw the gift in the air and hold on to the paper.  Parents like to give and give, maybe giving more than they got when they were growing up.  That makes Mom and Dad feel better about themselves, but overindulgence isn’t always necessary.  Even children, the little wanting scamps that they are, value relationships more than things.  You’ve never heard anyone say that they didn’t get enough toys when they were growing up. Continue reading “Intuitive Christmas Spending”